:::Nobody is getting it all right!!!:::

“ Having a low opinion of yourself is not "modesty". It's self-destruction. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not "egotism". It's a necessary precondition to happiness and success”.

 ~ Bobbe Sommer

Into every generation, different kinds of women are born. Some with greater strengths, some more intelligent, some smarter, others too sensitive, others gentle. Whether shy, soft spoken, loud or assertive, fast or slow, organized or disorganized, in our own little way, We Are Super Women. Every woman, in my opinion, whether tall or short, pretty, fat or thin, rich or poor, is unique in her own way; she just has not figured that out yet.

Trying to live the life of another woman will only get you confused and depressed. We were all made differently and have different paths to follow. 
We come across lots of people in our daily lives; through social Medias, behind our screens, by coincidence etc. and admire them. Of course it’s OK and but natural to admire. But where lots of us go wrong is when we try to imitate and wish we were them. We see these people from a distance and have absolutely no clue about what they miss, or what they do to stay where they are.

BE YOURSELF!!!!

Judy Garland said, 

“Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else”

It´s of no use trying to compare your negative with other woman´s positive qualities. That will only get you unhappy and negatively competitive. Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is within yourself, in your own way of thinking!

 Try to maintain your female energy of love and embrace your soft side; try to stay in control and to keep control.  Nobody is getting everything right in this world…

Be yourself!!

It is important to be grateful to the lives we live, the friends, and families we have, and what we have achieved so far. 

Take the challenge today; Pick up a pen and jotter. Every day before going to sleep write down the little things that made you happy, and after a while you´ll get to realize how uncountable your blessings are. There’s at least a good thing that happens every day, even though every day is not a good day!:::

                                                                                                                        Joyce Ashime